Should I reply to a txt from an ex

[chadded]

Last Saturday, I'm laying in bed with Mrs Chadded, and my fone gets a txt. I pick it up, and it's from my ex of two years ago. There wasn't exactly much chance or point of hiding it, it came up on my phone as Ex+******, and my mrs knows who this person is. Mrs Chadded's exact response when the ex was pointed out to her was to start laughing, and say something along the lines of 'At least I've got nothing to worry about,' which is a fair point, the ex is rats. Anyway the txt was one that youd expect to be sent from a friend you simply havent heard of for a while, not a former girlfriend whom you blocked on facebook, not spoken to, and generally avoided like the plague in over two years.

I ignored that, but then this morning I get another txt, going on about how 'her feelings were real etc'

To put this into some more context, I went out with her for less than 3 months, quite possibly gave her a dose, and dumped her on a Sunday night at Pizza Hut car park at Festival Leisure park.

Do I continue to ignore her, or just send her some abuse, and hope she gets the message, as she hasn't got the message yet after two years.



P.S. If you're reading this, please don't contact me again, ever. You know who you are.

 

[Lester Bangs]

Ignore and delete!

No good will come of it.

 

[MK Shrimper]

Ignore and delete!

No good will come of it.

Echo that. Mate of mine responded to a text from an ex and she ended up pretty much stalking him, nearly destroying his marriage.

 

[Usual_Suspect]

Pass her number to Don

 

[Gremlin]

To put this into some more context, I went out with her for less than 3 months, quite possibly gave her a dose, and dumped her on a Sunday night at Pizza Hut car park at Festival Leisure park.

This is what happens if you treat them too well chadded, they find it hard to let go.

 

[chadded]

Pass her number to Don

I know for a fact he already has it.

 

[Shrimpersarmy]

where's the 'hire a hitman' option?

 

[South Bank Hank]

People change phone numbers. Tell her she's got the wrong number.

Then make a little joke about Pizzas.

 

[Matt the Shrimp]

No good will come of texting her. Nothing will speak as eloquently of your utter disdain for this woman than cold, hard silence.

 

[Perth Bambi]

To put this into some more context, I went out with her for less than 3 months, quite possibly gave her a dose, and dumped her on a Sunday night at Pizza Hut car park at Festival Leisure park.

And you took her to Rome

 

[chadded]

People change phone numbers. Tell her she's got the wrong number.

Then make a little joke about Pizzas.

I could try that, but theres a reason why it wouldn't work...

 

[Yorkshire Blue]

Do we not need a photo of her in order to make a fully informed decision?

 

[chadded]

Do we not need a photo of her in order to make a fully informed decision?

You've met her, as have, I'd guess at about 99% of the membership of SZ.

 

[The General]

And you took her to Rome

Dear Bambi,

Could you let me know on what dates they went to Rome please!?

Thanking you,

Kev

 

[cockles is back]

OBL?

you gave her a dose???

 

[southend4ever]

Is she that little blonde minx that is about 18-21? goes to all home and away games with her family?

 

[Dick Bate's Protege]

Invite her round, and gradually introduce the idea to her and your new mrs that Lesbianity pleases you. I recommend some form of cloak/cape and a mask for when the action goes down.

 

[Berrichonne shrimper]

Nope it has to be that girl about town southend lady,oh how i giggled at those drunken night out stories.dont text or you will get vexed,maybe she wants to give you your dose back.

 

[DTS]

Well,

As I see it if you did see her one of two possible outcomes could occur

1) You end up smashing her doors in or
2) She goes all mental again.

She is clearly not right in the head if she thinks her feelings were real after 3 months. I am thinking maybe she has a STD worse than the one you gave her and she wants revenge.

Add to this if your Mrs who I would say is a bit of a sort found out she would a) kill you oe b) dump you. Maybe best to give it a sweve.

Big Kiss
Dave the Scenario.

 

[Yorkshire Blue]

You've met her, as have, I'd guess at about 99% of the membership of SZ.

LOL

No good will come of texting her. Nothing will speak as eloquently of your utter disdain for this woman than cold, hard silence.

Say it with flowers silence a thread on SZ.