londonblue
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I watched my eldest son play for his Sunday league team yesterday, and saw some things I've never seen before in a kids football match. Bear in mind this is under 12s.
Firstly, the other team were huge. The irony being that their goalkeeper was probably their smallest player. Even when a kid is tall you can see in his face that he's young, but these guys didn't even look young. On top of that, at half time my son told me that one of their players had called him a "****ing *******", and that they kept calling his team gay.
IMO, being called gay shouldn't really be seen as an insult, you either are or aren't and it's no big deal one way or the other. But it is still homophobic abuse so I mentioned it to the team manager, who mentioned it to the referee. (The referee had already given my son's team a penalty that had to be re-taken because one of the opposition team shouted out just as the kick was taken. The 2nd attempt was scored.)
So, just before the 2nd half, the referee called the opposition team over and I was just about close enough to hear him say that if there was any more of that they'd be off. Later on in the 2nd half the referee gave my son's team a 2nd penalty for a blatant trip. As the penalty was taken (and scored) one of the opposition forwards squared up and starting pushing one of my son's team mates. The ref couldn't see it, obviously, but I was concerned enough to try to catch his attention, although he didn't hear me.
And then came the pièce de résistance: one of their players obviously said something, and the ref sent him off. I was genuinely shocked by that, mainly because the ref had the courage of his convictions to send a 12/13 year old off.
(BTW my son's team won 3-2 with only 11 players and and complete rookie in goal as their only goalkeeper wasn't available. At this age you're allowed rolling subs and the other team made 8 subs in the 1st half.)
Anyone got any similar stories?
Firstly, the other team were huge. The irony being that their goalkeeper was probably their smallest player. Even when a kid is tall you can see in his face that he's young, but these guys didn't even look young. On top of that, at half time my son told me that one of their players had called him a "****ing *******", and that they kept calling his team gay.
IMO, being called gay shouldn't really be seen as an insult, you either are or aren't and it's no big deal one way or the other. But it is still homophobic abuse so I mentioned it to the team manager, who mentioned it to the referee. (The referee had already given my son's team a penalty that had to be re-taken because one of the opposition team shouted out just as the kick was taken. The 2nd attempt was scored.)
So, just before the 2nd half, the referee called the opposition team over and I was just about close enough to hear him say that if there was any more of that they'd be off. Later on in the 2nd half the referee gave my son's team a 2nd penalty for a blatant trip. As the penalty was taken (and scored) one of the opposition forwards squared up and starting pushing one of my son's team mates. The ref couldn't see it, obviously, but I was concerned enough to try to catch his attention, although he didn't hear me.
And then came the pièce de résistance: one of their players obviously said something, and the ref sent him off. I was genuinely shocked by that, mainly because the ref had the courage of his convictions to send a 12/13 year old off.
(BTW my son's team won 3-2 with only 11 players and and complete rookie in goal as their only goalkeeper wasn't available. At this age you're allowed rolling subs and the other team made 8 subs in the 1st half.)
Anyone got any similar stories?