Is it wrong to go out with just another man for lunch.

[DTS]

Lads,

Now I could be wrong but I think I have uncovered one of the greatest sexism scandals of the last decade.

On Monday my mate Mike who now lives in Hong Kong is back for a short break to see his Mum who lives locally to me. we have agreed to go out for a bite to eat at lunch (Pizza, Ruby, Tapas etc). We are both 32 married with two kids.

I told the girls that I work with this and they have said "its a bit gay". I asked if its ok for two girls to go out to lunch and they have said thats fine but its "gay" for two men to go for lunch together. They have added that a pub lunch is ok its more of a sit down type meal they object too. Day or night is irrelevant, the rule they feel is its gay unless your in a minimum of a group of three.

As a caviat business lunches are not "gay" if its just two men.


Now for my mind its perfectly acceptable to go for some grub with your pal. What are my fellow Southenders thoughts on this. Is it really gay to go for a meal with a pal?

Cheers
DtS

 

[MK Shrimper]

What a load of bollocks. Of course it's ok.





No tongues though Quentin :winking:

 

[Cricko]

Blimey we both have dilemma's today Dave ,it must be our shy reserved natures mate....I say go anyway there is nothing gay about it mate x

 

[MrB]

Went and had some Tapas with a mate the other day. The girls in your office are clearly lezzers who secretly yearn for some gentleman's juice. Hang on, my mind is wandering again.....

Oh and Dave, stop flirting with my bird haha :smile:

 

[DTS]

Went and had some Tapas with a mate the other day. The girls in your office are clearly lezzers who secretly yearn for some gentleman's juice. Hang on, my mind is wandering again.....

Oh and Dave, stop flirting with my bird haha :smile:

She is responsible (or was) or me getting paid mate so have to keep in there...

:dim:

 

[BLUEBLOOD]

Me and Creaky went for lunch last week .. he wanted to hold hands but i had to put my foot down there

 

[davewebbsbrain]

That's nothing...There's a guy at work, allegedly straight, that can't see anything wrong with dutch ruddering and would quite happily do it to help a mate out...that is gay!

 

[osymandus]

Total tosh , nothing wrong with it at all .

 

[BrettieAngell]

complete load of bollocks!

 

[Yorkshire Blue]

Lads,

Now I could be wrong but I think I have uncovered one of the greatest sexism scandals of the last decade.

On Monday my mate Mike who now lives in Hong Kong is back for a short break to see his Mum who lives locally to me. we have agreed to go out for a bite to eat at lunch (Pizza, Ruby, Tapas etc). We are both 32 married with two kids.

I told the girls that I work with this and they have said "its a bit gay". I asked if its ok for two girls to go out to lunch and they have said thats fine but its "gay" for two men to go for lunch together. They have added that a pub lunch is ok its more of a sit down type meal. Day or night the rule they feel is its gay unless your in a minimum of a group of three.

As a caviat business lunches are not "gay" if its just two men.


Now for my mind its perfectly acceptable to go for some grub with your pal. What are my fellow Southenders thoughts on this. Is it really gay to go for a meal with a pal?

Cheers
DtS

Don't you live down Brighton way?

 

[canveyshrimper]

Me and Creaky went for lunch last week .. he wanted to hold hands but i had to put my foot down there

Put your foot down where? :stunned:

 

[WightShrimper]

Put your foot down where? :stunned:

And are there still 12 inches in a foot?