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The wife and I really enjoyed a recent BBC drama called Public Enemy starring Anna Friel who I am now in love with. I won't ruin it for anyone that has Sky+ it but basically the plot is a lad murdered his girlfriend when he was 17, he serves his time and then has to come out and rebuild his life.

He meets a girl where he works and tells her he was inside for armed robbery. When she finds out it was murder she dumps him.

So my question is if your partner had murdered a former lover after fight all be it many years ago could you keep going in your relationship or would you have to end it?

Personally I think I would keep going with the Mrs. Would be pretty appalled and might consider moving into one of the kids rooms at night but guess you have to let the past be the past?
 
Can't see myself forgiving to be honest, although it would probably depend how good she was between the sheets :-)
 
Don't know, would entirely depend on circumstances, whether wilful or not etc. Not seen the programme so don't know if you're relating to the circs in that. I'm pretty sure I'd stay as what I have now is just so much better in every way than what I had before.
 
Depends how she killed him.......poisoned him with diabolical dinners then I'd be off; shagged him to death...I'd take my chances!
 
The wife and I really enjoyed a recent BBC drama called Public Enemy starring Anna Friel who I am now in love with. I won't ruin it for anyone that has Sky+ it but basically the plot is a lad murdered his girlfriend when he was 17, he serves his time and then has to come out and rebuild his life.

He meets a girl where he works and tells her he was inside for armed robbery. When she finds out it was murder she dumps him.

So my question is if your partner had murdered a former lover after fight all be it many years ago could you keep going in your relationship or would you have to end it?

Personally I think I would keep going with the Mrs. Would be pretty appalled and might consider moving into one of the kids rooms at night but guess you have to let the past be the past?

When I met my Charlotte for the first time I admitted to having issues with drug abuse and trying to kill myself few days before the Ipswich away game in the championship she was fine she was good enough to know to take me on face value and I think she respected the fact I was open with her - now its been 6 months going strong and I have never been healthier or this happy since I was 12 years old :)
 
Having met or seen most of the wifes ex's then I wouldn't have held it against her if she had done the lot of them with bleach cocktails or a blunt butter knife.
 
When I met my Charlotte for the first time I admitted to having issues with drug abuse and trying to kill myself few days before the Ipswich away game in the championship she was fine she was good enough to know to take me on face value and I think she respected the fact I was open with her - now its been 6 months going strong and I have never been healthier or this happy since I was 12 years old :)

But Scott have you told her about Walsall away in 2008 ?
 
Or that car crash you picked up before Millwall away at Borough Market a few years ago.

The day you threw all the glasses about you mean :winking:

Oh and TB lets not mention those tower blocks.

Back on topic, I would have serious worries about staying with a murderer.
 
The wife and I really enjoyed a recent BBC drama called Public Enemy starring Anna Friel who I am now in love with. I won't ruin it for anyone that has Sky+ it but basically the plot is a lad murdered his girlfriend when he was 17, he serves his time and then has to come out and rebuild his life.

He meets a girl where he works and tells her he was inside for armed robbery. When she finds out it was murder she dumps him.

So my question is if your partner had murdered a former lover after fight all be it many years ago could you keep going in your relationship or would you have to end it?

Personally I think I would keep going with the Mrs. Would be pretty appalled and might consider moving into one of the kids rooms at night but guess you have to let the past be the past?

Sorry DtS, but how can you ask this whilst believing in the death penalty? For you this situation should never arise...
 
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