If your son was Gay?

[Yorkshire Blue]

Don't be silly!!!!! its not something your born with its all tripe! do animals get born gay? I don't think so!

Wikipedia suggests otherwise

 

[Xàbia Shrimper]

I would beat the **** out of the git! no son of mine is going to be a **** stabber!!!!

What are you afraid of, Scott? There seems to be a lot of fear in your responses ...

 

[Matt the Shrimp]

I cannot understand how someone can reject their own son. At the end of the day, all that we can hope for is that our children are healthy and happy.

I'd be pretending if I said that I wouldn't be a bit daunted by a child's homosexuality - but then that would perhaps be more my fear of the unknown, together with my concerns about the difficulties that my child would face. Even in the UK, intolerance and prejudice towards homosexuality still abounds - and no parent wants their child to suffer the slings & arrows of others' bigotry or ignorance.

But your child is and will always be your child and nothing can change that. That your former keeper has chosen to disown his son screams loud and clear about his own failings, his own fear, his own prejudices. I feel sorry for him - it is he who has chosen irreperably to damage the bond with his son, not the other way round. He'll regret it when he's old and lonely.

:(

 

[leeblue]

I have a ten year old son and would be happy to see my son happy, regardless of his sexual orientation or anything else for that matter.
In fact the prospect of no grand children would be quite pleasing cheap christmas yay

 

[MK Shrimper]

I feel sorry for him - it is he who has chosen irreperably to damage the bond with his son, not the other way round. He'll regret it when he's old and lonely.

:(

As ever Matthew, your words are erudite and wise. Are you sure you're not Yoda in disguise?

 

[callan]

I cannot understand how someone can reject their own son. At the end of the day, all that we can hope for is that our children are healthy and happy.

I'd be pretending if I said that I wouldn't be a bit daunted by a child's homosexuality - but then that would perhaps be more my fear of the unknown, together with my concerns about the difficulties that my child would face. Even in the UK, intolerance and prejudice towards homosexuality still abounds - and no parent wants their child to suffer the slings & arrows of others' bigotry or ignorance.

But your child is and will always be your child and nothing can change that. That your former keeper has chosen to disown his son screams loud and clear about his own failings, his own fear, his own prejudices. I feel sorry for him - it is he who has chosen irreperably to damage the bond with his son, not the other way round. He'll regret it when he's old and lonely.

:(

Would you be as proud and tolerant if you were the parent of an **** raping / necropheliac gang banging Duck?

 

[MK Shrimper]

I have a ten year old son and would be happy to see my son happy, regardless of his sexual orientation or anything else for that matter.
In fact the prospect of no grand children would be quite pleasing cheap christmas yay

Oh I don't think.... :D

 

[Pubey]

Oh I don't think.... :D

Gay Dad: wasn't that a band!?

 

[MK Shrimper]

Would you be as proud and tolerant if you were the parent of an **** raping / necropheliac gang banging Duck?

Damn straight! I'd put him in the circus

 

[MK Shrimper]

Gay Dad: wasn't that a band!?

Gay Dad, and they WERE rubbish media darlings in the mid 90's.

 

[ldnfatso]

If i had a son, i think it would dissapoint me if he come outas gay but i could not dis-own him for one minute. He is flesh and blood after all. For TB to say he'd beat the **** out of him is a disgrace, i hope he never has kids if that is the way he behaves.
On a slightly different note an ex colleague of mine at work has had his son exposed as a serial paedophile. His parents, who i know well are going through hell at the moment. However, they are still standing by him despite the media attention and so called friends that have suddenly drifted away and ignored phone calls. I attach a link below to one of the newspaper articles about the case:
http://www.thejc.com/home.aspx?AId=54894&ATypeId=1&search=true2&srchstr=gersh&srchtxt=1&srchhead=1&srchauthor=1&srchsandp=1&scsrch=0

My question is this: If my ex colleague can stand by his son for the terrible offences he has committed, surely a son being gay is insignificant in comparrison?

I'm particular, i'm interested in how TB would tackle this situation. Would it be with his fists again?

 

[osymandus]

is this some sort of fantasy?

Sadly and thankfully no , it really is away a type of duck procreates !

Well found the original quote from Stewart Lee (lol)
"Mallards are the only creatures that reproduce exclusively by gang rape. They have been captured on film indulging in some recreational homosexual necrophilia"

 

[osymandus]

If i had a son, i think it would dissapoint me if he come outas gay but i could not dis-own him for one minute. He is flesh and blood after all. For TB to say he'd beat the **** out of him is a disgrace, i hope he never has kids if that is the way he behaves.
On a slightly different note an ex colleague of mine at work has had his son exposed as a serial paedophile. His parents, who i know well are going through hell at the moment. However, they are still standing by him despite the media attention and so called friends that have suddenly drifted away and ignored phone calls. I attach a link below to one of the newspaper articles about the case:
http://www.thejc.com/home.aspx?AId=...&srchhead=1&srchauthor=1&srchsandp=1&scsrch=0

My question is this: If my ex colleague can stand by his son for the terrible offences he has committed, surely a son being gay is insignificant in comparrison?

I'm particular, i'm interested in how TB would tackle this situation. Would it be with his fists again?

Now that is a heck of a thing to come out about your chld . Can you decide there are "limits" to how acceptable you are for your childrens actions from the point they become adults . And how far you can support them . I know i mentioned unconditional love earlier , but this could raise a far more difficult point ? Even in these cases their are individual cercumstance , but theres a heck fo a differnece between concent and non conecting actions upon others .

 

[Matt the Shrimp]

Would you be as proud and tolerant if you were the parent of an **** raping / necropheliac gang banging Duck?

:thump:

I might not want to be discussing the finer points of c*ck-rings or the like, but it doesn't mean I would disown him.

Matt

 

[Matt the Shrimp]

As ever Matthew, your words are erudite and wise. Are you sure you're not Yoda in disguise?

I'm not 800 years old yet.

Hmm, does that mean Cricko might be Yoda...?!

:p

 

[Uncle Leo]

I'm not 800 years old yet.

Hmm, does that mean Cricko might be Yoda...?!

:p

Well the force is strong in him. Either that or it's the Brut he slaps on every morning.

 

[Aberdeen Shrimper]

I would beat the **** out of the git! no son of mine is going to be a **** stabber!!!!

Unbelievable......i can not believe this is truly your view??

I normally have a good chuckle at your crass "Bull in a china shop" views but i am afraid i just find this one offensive, sorry mate but you are way off the mark on this one.

I have a 6 years old son and would have no problem at all if he came home one day and told me that he was gay. I would be 100% supportive, you learn this when you become a parent, it is not always about what you want!!!!

Go look at the ****ing calendar mate....it is 2007 not 1977.


You are not the love Child of Jim Davidson and Bernard Manning are you?????

 

[TrueBlue]

Unbelievable......i can not believe this is truly your view??

I normally have a good chuckle at your crass "Bull in a china shop" views but i am afraid i just find this one offensive, sorry mate but you are way off the mark on this one.

I have a 6 years old son and would have no problem at all if he came home one day and told me that he was gay. I would be 100% supportive, you learn this when you become a parent, it is not always about what you want!!!!

Go look at the ****ing calendar mate....it is 2007 not 1977.


You are not the love Child of Jim Davidson and Bernard Manning are you?????

wooooaahhhhh mate chill! I don't think that mate! each to their own really if my son was Gay yes I would be a touch uncomfortable but if he is happy then good for him and good luck to him I would not love him any less!

Scott on the exterior is a loud mouth right wing larger lout but inside I have love and peace, well somewhere anyway!! :D

 

[Vange Shrimper]

Scott is a loud mouth right wing larger lout

Think the whole of the Marlborough Head found that out on Saturday evening :D

 

[Aberdeen Shrimper]

wooooaahhhhh mate chill! I don't think that mate! each to their own really if my son was Gay yes I would be a touch uncomfortable but if he is happy then good for him and good luck to him I would not love him any less!

Scott on the exterior is a loud mouth right wing larger lout but inside I have love and peace, well somewhere anyway!! :D

You have restored my faith in you TB, Guy hug coming up..............does not make me gay though!!!!!!