Davros
The Whippet
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Wee Alfie doesn’t look more than seven, and it’s obvious he won’t be much of a father NOW. It’s unlikely that he will grow up to become a candidate for parent of the year, or indeed have much to do with the child (the baby I mean, not the little squit), but you never know, he just might. Fathering a child at a young age doesn’t automatically qualify you for chav scum membership – are teenage fumblings confined to the underclass? In common with MK Shrimper, I wasn’t really that interested at 12, but from 14 onwards, all I wanted was sex, and lots of it.
Sadly for me and the female population of Southend-on-sea, I didn’t really get much. In fact, nothing at all until I was 16. The lady in question was on the pill, and showed me the packet to prove her point. For me, that was good enough, and I risked the awful world of STDs by losing my cherry bareback style.
As a result of this, or possibly the sequel a couple of nights later, I am now the father of a young lady who will be turning 20 in June. My daughter’s mother did a quick bunk two days after her first Christmas, but with massive support from my parents, I have succeeded in raising a well-adjusted and sensible young woman who is now in her second year of university.
I realise this sounds like me telling you all how great I am, but that’s not my intention. I think I’ve done OK, but I’m blessed to have a strong family unit and a daughter with a lot more sense than her old man. I’ve taken her to live in different countries, introduced some fairly questionable women into our lives, but she’s survived it all.
The point I’m really trying to make is that young parents can be good parents, and they’re not all scumbags. Of course I would have preferred to finish school and university before she was born, but that wasn’t the hand I was dealt with. If families stand together and support one another, and at least one of the parents takes some responsibility, anything’s possible.
Im not denying that young parents cant be good parents, but you were 16/17 when your daughter was born, this chap is 12... my willy probably didnt even work then!
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