Best way to dump someone???

[Southend_Lady]

Sounds to me like you're still a bit upset by this :net:

Perhaps you are on to something there....nah just pi55ed off by it still as the whole thing dragged on up until a few weeks ago!

For once I am man free - none on the radar, off to Zante Tuesday and happier than ever! However, if any of you know or are an eligible batchelor then feel welcome to send yourself or significant male in my direction. Many thanks.

 

[Alexis_SUFC]

Back in the day, I once got a mate to tell a girl i was dead in order to get her off my case! She was practically stalking me (I'm talking 20 odd phone calls a day and loads and loads of texts) and i felt i had no other option. I'm lead to believe she was actually a bit upset about it.

Funniest thing is i saw her in Southend high street 2 or 3 years later. I honestly did not know where to put my face...!

**Please note i was about 13 at the time and i am now very ashamed of my antics. Oh, and also please note she was ginger. Which makes it ok.**

That was ****ing hilarious, if I remember rightly she then went on to stalk the mate in question. I remember that she phoned me up to check if it was true about your death, that shocked me a little bit lol.

 

[chadded]

Back in the day, I once got a mate to tell a girl i was dead in order to get her off my case! We weren't actually going out or anything but she was practically stalking me (I'm talking 20 odd phone calls a day and loads and loads of texts) and i felt i had no other option. I'm lead to believe she was actually a bit upset about it.

Funniest thing is i saw her in Southend high street 2 or 3 years later. I honestly did not know where to put my face...!

**Please note i was about 13 at the time and i am now very ashamed of my antics. Oh, and also please note she was ginger. Which makes it ok.**

Why didnt you just tell her the truth and say that you had caught gay?

 

[OldBlueLady]

Because I spent almost every week going up to Notts meaning I spent a DAMN SITE more money on petrol that he ever did. I think he made it down to Essex 3 times in 6 months. Rubbish. So that is why I expected him to at least make the trip for me.

But you're judging him by your standards aren't you? Reality isn't like that, I'm afraid. Try my one again, being told "it's not mine" by my then fiance when I told him I was pregnant, then completely ignoring me for 6 weeks - he was out of the country - by which point I'd had a miscarriage, his response? "You had an abortion." All conducted over the phone.

 

[Firestorm]

But you're judging him by your standards aren't you? Reality isn't like that, I'm afraid. Try my one again, being told "it's not mine" by my then fiance when I told him I was pregnant, then completely ignoring me for 6 weeks - he was out of the country - by which point I'd had a miscarriage, his response? "You had an abortion." All conducted over the phone.

Now that is harsh....

I don't recall every actually telling someone they are dumped. In my younger days I just sort of stopped ringing them and as they were never long term (ie more than about 6 weeks) it didn't seem a great deal. My first girlfriend dumped me (back in the days when it was called "Chucked") and so did my first Wife.

My Brother was asked to be Best Man at our mates wedding many moons ago and started seeing the chief bridesmaid , he dumped her the week before the wedding, which did not go down too well..........

 

[blues_r_best]

Back in the day, I once got a mate to tell a girl i was dead in order to get her off my case! We weren't actually going out or anything but she was practically stalking me (I'm talking 20 odd phone calls a day and loads and loads of texts) and i felt i had no other option. I'm lead to believe she was actually a bit upset about it.

Funniest thing is i saw her in Southend high street 2 or 3 years later. I honestly did not know where to put my face...!

**Please note i was about 13 at the time and i am now very ashamed of my antics. Oh, and also please note she was ginger. Which makes it ok.**

That was ****ing hilarious, if I remember rightly she then went on to stalk the mate in question. I remember that she phoned me up to check if it was true about your death, that shocked me a little bit lol.

Ray Parlour!

I remember Shrimpersarmy shouting across the classroom for me telling a girl she was dumped after we had gone out for a day.

Classy

 

[toellandback]

Yeah that is what I thought. He was due to come down to Essex that particular day for the weekend. He didn't even have the decency to drive down and tell me to my face and speak to me properly etc. What a toss pot. Oh well it was his loss and if he wants to carry on rotting in his northern slum then so be it.[/quote]

No hard feelings eh :unsure: He was bang out of order though

 

[Southend_Lady]

But you're judging him by your standards aren't you? Reality isn't like that, I'm afraid. Try my one again, being told "it's not mine" by my then fiance when I told him I was pregnant, then completely ignoring me for 6 weeks - he was out of the country - by which point I'd had a miscarriage, his response? "You had an abortion." All conducted over the phone.

Yes that maybe true. Believe me when I say though he was a nasty peice of work and my self confidence took a massive hit after going through the break up with him. Only in the last couple months have I felt myself and back to being truely happy again.

You poor thing though, that sounds like a horrid thing to go through. Guess everything works out for the best in the end and that you had a lucky ecape :)

 

[chadded]

A friend of mine received a 'Dear John' letter out here, and he felt the best way to deal with it was to tape it to a grenade, and throw the grenade. Makes a cracking video as well.

 

[MK Shrimper]

No hard feelings eh :unsure: I was bang out of order though and now I've turned into a big northern gay anyhow.

Honesty is the best policy you lil' northern dirtbag.

 

[Ricey]

A friend of mine received a 'Dear John' letter out here, and he felt the best way to deal with it was to tape it to a grenade, and throw the grenade. Makes a cracking video as well.

Nice to know my tax money is being well spent!!

 

[toellandback]

Honesty is the best policy you lil' northern dirtbag.

Thanks mate :'( , i would never do that to a lady.

 

[MK Shrimper]

Thanks mate :'( , i would never do that to a lady.

No, you just beat them up there with some barm cakes?

:p

 

[toellandback]

No, you just beat them up there with some barm cakes?

:p

Who can resist a pot of Yorkshire tea and chips and gravy eh??

Just cause your jealous duck

 

[MK Shrimper]

Who can resist a pot of Yorkshire tea and chips and gravy eh??

Just cause your jealous duck

I am, you're right. I only got half way to MK before my donkey keeled over so I set up camp here!

 

[Alexis_SUFC]

Ray Parlour!

I remember Shrimpersarmy shouting across the classroom for me telling a girl she was dumped after we had gone out for a day.

Classy

I'd completely forgotten about that, absolute quality! Did you even speak to her in that day you were going out?

When I was about 10 my school did a french exchange trip, as I'm fluent in french all the frogs would always talk to me. One girl in particular was really annoying so I refused to speak french to her, she soon got the message.

 

[stoy_redstar]

Back in the day, I once got a mate to tell a girl i was dead in order to get her off my case! We weren't actually going out or anything but she was practically stalking me (I'm talking 20 odd phone calls a day and loads and loads of texts) and i felt i had no other option. I'm lead to believe she was actually a bit upset about it.

Funniest thing is i saw her in Southend high street 2 or 3 years later. I honestly did not know where to put my face...!

**Please note i was about 13 at the time and i am now very ashamed of my antics. Oh, and also please note she was ginger. Which makes it ok.**

was her name nicola....because i had a similar experience:stunned:. this girl would not leave me alone or get the hint. i tried the old text "you're really fit and all that....but im gona go back to my ex". then the stalking started, so i had to get one of my mates to pretend to be my girlfriend and actually threaten the girl into leaving me alone:unsure:. (and who says serbs arent brave :'()

 

[DTS]

Perhaps you are on to something there....nah just pi55ed off by it still as the whole thing dragged on up until a few weeks ago!

For once I am man free - none on the radar, off to Zante Tuesday and happier than ever! However, if any of you know or are an eligible batchelor then feel welcome to send yourself or significant male in my direction. Many thanks.

Maybe we could run a sort of blind date contest via the zone.

All the blokes that class themselves as single answer three pre-set questions from you and you choose a favourite? The said males email there answers into a central person and you both have to comitte to one date........

 

[Southend_Lady]

Maybe we could run a sort of blind date contest via the zone.

All the blokes that class themselves as single answer three pre-set questions from you and you choose a favourite? The said males email there answers into a central person and you both have to comitte to one date........

As well organised and thought out as that sounds young David I really don't want any men on my radar at the moment unless they meet simple approvals beforehand, oh and unless it's Brad Pitt. Happy as I am :)

Plus blind dates are awful, especially if you have to run off. I've had a mate that went on a blind date that was so awful that she said she was going to the toilet and never came back......