Ron Manager
formerly Libertine
I'm not about to have SZ make major life decisions for me and my family, however I am interested in what people's opinions are. I seriously want to come home from Australia to live back in England. I know it's only been 6 months or so since I left but the homesickness is just too much and I really want to return. Don't get me wrong, I love Australia and so much about living here is fantastic. But you know how sometimes at the end of even the most fantastic holiday it's nice to get home? Well that's how I'm feeling now. Sunny weather, beaches, BBQs etc etc are all very well and good but I miss HOME.
Don't bother with any nationalistic rants about how great England is - I'm fully aware of the good points the country has and I'm all too familiar with it's faults. The thing for me is people. Friends and family which make the cold weather, dark winter days and overcrowding tolerable. I honestly underestimated how important those people were to me. Of course I knew it would be hard but never realised quite how gut wrenching the feeling is. I know now why they call it home sickness, I honestly feel physically ill sometimes as a result of it.
Feedback from other ex-pats in particular would be great as they've been through this. Am I being stupid considering jacking it all in so soon? Did other ex-pats feel the same way but got over it after a period of time, or does it stay with you?
Like I said, it won't be the comments from a forum which will make my mind up for me. There are so many considerations to take into account, for a start my little girl loves it here and even at 3 years old has said she wants to live in Australia and only go back to England for a visit. I've also got to consider the job prospects back home. However I'd be genuinely interested in what people think and any personal experiences some may have to relay....
Don't bother with any nationalistic rants about how great England is - I'm fully aware of the good points the country has and I'm all too familiar with it's faults. The thing for me is people. Friends and family which make the cold weather, dark winter days and overcrowding tolerable. I honestly underestimated how important those people were to me. Of course I knew it would be hard but never realised quite how gut wrenching the feeling is. I know now why they call it home sickness, I honestly feel physically ill sometimes as a result of it.
Feedback from other ex-pats in particular would be great as they've been through this. Am I being stupid considering jacking it all in so soon? Did other ex-pats feel the same way but got over it after a period of time, or does it stay with you?
Like I said, it won't be the comments from a forum which will make my mind up for me. There are so many considerations to take into account, for a start my little girl loves it here and even at 3 years old has said she wants to live in Australia and only go back to England for a visit. I've also got to consider the job prospects back home. However I'd be genuinely interested in what people think and any personal experiences some may have to relay....