I don't know if its me but I find it all a bit much grassing up a fellow fan for swearing and ranting at the players.
If I don't like what someone is saying I would (and have in the past) told them so. I just don't agree with trying to get a fellow fan banned. Like it I say it might be me.
Sorry for the late reply on this but I've only just seen it. I know what you mean Dave, and I have sworn at games in the past (as you are aware!). I am the guy that Fish was referring to that sits with his parents behind him. I have gone to football for years, and have heard everything under the sun, repeatedly.
These guys that we are referring to though are different level. I have sat behind them for years, purely because all of us love ours seats and very often say we wouldn't want another view in the ground. It simply is the best view at Roots Hall in our opinion. I considered moving us this summer, but I refuse to do it just because of these two. We all share that opinion. And, admittedly particularly after a couple of beers, I have talked to them (not shouted), because quite regularly, I am sat there cringing at knowing how offended my parents are by what comes out of their mouths. This is not every now and again, this is again, and again, and again, every 20-30 seconds or so, with the worst language possible. Quite regularly they will wait until the appropriate Southend player is in earshot until they (sometimes literally) spit their foul mouthed abuse at them. This is not tourettes, they know what they are doing.
As I have said, I have talked to them, asking them to not to use so much bad language. The abuse I have received in return is nothing short of shocking. I hate confrontation, so for me to have a word in the first instance is quite something, but seriously...it's offensive. Their counter argument at me is that they have been going more than 40 years so they are entitled to it "and you don't even ?!*$ing come every game anyway". Well, as you know I am a touring musician so have to be away a lot, and sometimes, little do they know, that when my parents can't make it and I can, I will sometimes sit with other friends the other side of the middle block purely to have a game off from their offensive (to us fans and the players) and almost always unnecessary abuse. I have a season ticket, and pay just as much money as them.
So I HAVE had a word with them, but I think something should be done when in return I am physically threatened. I am definitely not interested in 'taking them outside'. A reaction like that is not.
I am back for the Mansfield game. It does sound like there might have been improvement there, which would be a massive relief on our part, but if it comes back I will contacting the club for sure.
Our club, and our players, however bad either can be, don't deserve what they receive from those two, and more than anything, it just saddens me.
I don't go to football to feel, sad, aggravated and threatened.